Helping women find fulfillment and excitement in their careers is one thing.
I want them to find the thing that they burn for. And I want them to find the courage to go after it. But there is more.
I want FIRE
I LOVE it when people get excited. I am drawn to enthusiastic people and I have a deep-seated need to spread that enthusiasm. The way that their eyes light up when they talk about something that excites them, the way they start talking wildly with their hands or moving around, unable to physically contain themselves. That is the way that I want women to feel all the time.
Ok, maybe not allllll the time, that would be weird.
But I want them to feel the fire in their daily lives that comes from doing a job they love and are fulfilled by. That comes from being surrounded by people they love and have healthy, happy relationships with. I want everyone to find the thing that they can talk non-stop about and do that thing. Without fear of what someone else will think or say about it. Without worrying about whether or not they are good enough.
Drop the imposter syndrome. Transform the limiting beliefs. Take the leap. Be BRAVE and do the thing!
and I want FEELINGS
Give me all the feelings. The kind of work that I do is deep and emotional. It is raw and messy and deeply honest. There are angry words and crying and truth and forgiveness and laughter and relief and release and love and all of the things in between and I am 100% here for it.
I want to help women to see and acknowledge the things that are guiding them in life that even they might not be fully aware of. I want to show them that all feelings have a purpose and deserve to be looked at. That if we start listening to the signals our bodies are sending us and seeing the messages behind the patterns we keep repeating and listen to the feelings we are trying to suppress, we will be free to start fresh and create a new path for ourselves.
I want to help clear out and clean up.
Spoiler: I do not want to clean anyone's house (sorry). What I do want, is to take a look at your past and your family system and find unhelpful patterns, limiting beliefs and unresolved issues that are affecting you in the present. I want to help you find resolution and forgiveness. To untangle, break through and resolve the things that still need to be dealt with, lifting the weight from your shoulders. Leaving you lighter and freer.
(Yes, I double-checked and freer IS a word.)
It boils down to strength and empowerment, really.
Yes, I too want to strengthen and empower women. But can there really be too many people who want to do that? I think not.
I want them to feel secure and confident. To trust in themselves and their abilities, without having to check in with everyone else first for approval. I want them to feel self-determined and free to live a life on their terms. I want them to know that they can, that they are strong, that they have what it takes, and that yes, they are absolutely good enough and deserving and worth it.
Because when you know those things and when you are doing the thing that you love, you will be better in all areas of your life. Your relationships will benefit. Your family will benefit. Your colleagues and clients will benefit. Your health will benefit. Everything gets better the minute you stop living for everyone else and start living for yourself. The minute you choose to put yourself out there in the world and do the thing that fills you with fire.
Ok, I also just really want the fire.
Who's with me?
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